In 2012, a Chinese gamer's father was so concerned about his son's habit, he hired virtual hitmen to kill off his avatar.

Chinese Dad Hired Hitmen to Kill His Son's Game Character

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In 2012, a Chinese father reached his breaking point. His 23-year-old son Xiao Feng had been gaming obsessively since high school, his grades had tanked, and he still hadn't landed a job after graduation. Traditional interventions—lectures, ultimatums, pleading—had all failed. So Mr. Feng decided to fight fire with fire, or more accurately, to fight pixels with pixels.

He hired virtual hitmen.

The In-Game Assassination Campaign

Mr. Feng tracked down high-level players in the online games his son frequented and paid them real money to do one thing: hunt down and kill Xiao Feng's avatar every single time he logged on. The father specifically chose players with superior skills and levels to ensure maximum griefing potential. Every gaming session became a nightmare of spawn camping and repeated deaths.

The plan was simple—make gaming so frustrating and unrewarding that his son would give up and finally look for work.

When the Assassins Cracked

But there was a flaw in Mr. Feng's strategy: human curiosity. After being relentlessly targeted session after session, Xiao Feng started asking his killers why they kept hunting him specifically. The hired assassins, perhaps feeling guilty or just confused by the persistent questioning, eventually revealed the truth—his own father was bankrolling the virtual hit squad.

The confrontation that followed didn't go as Mr. Feng had hoped. Rather than expressing gratitude for the tough love, Xiao Feng was defiant: "I can play or I can not play, it doesn't bother me. I'm not looking for any job—I want to take some time to find one that suits me."

A Desperate Measure in the Gaming Addiction Crisis

Professor Mark Griffiths, a gambling and addictions expert at Nottingham Trent University, told the BBC he'd never heard of family members going to such drastic measures in his 25 years of experience. He noted that some players he'd studied dedicated up to 14 hours a day to gaming.

The story, first reported by the Sanqing Daily and picked up by international media in early 2013, struck a nerve. It highlighted the lengths to which concerned parents might go when confronting gaming addiction—and the generational divide in understanding both the appeal of online worlds and how to address problematic gaming behavior.

Whether the virtual assassination campaign ultimately worked remains unclear from reports. But it certainly demonstrated that when it comes to parenting in the digital age, sometimes the most creative solutions are also the most hilariously misguided.

Frequently Asked Questions

Did the Chinese father's plan to hire virtual hitmen work?
No, the plan backfired. The son eventually asked his in-game killers why they kept targeting him, and they revealed his father had hired them. When confronted, the son remained defiant about his gaming habits.
Why did a Chinese father hire people to kill his son's video game character?
Mr. Feng hired in-game assassins to repeatedly kill his 23-year-old son's avatar because the son was addicted to gaming, had failed to find a job after graduation, and hadn't responded to traditional interventions. The father hoped making gaming frustrating would force him to quit.
How much do people play video games when addicted?
According to Professor Mark Griffiths, an addictions expert, some players he's studied dedicate up to 14 hours a day to gaming. The Chinese son in this story had been gaming obsessively since high school.
Is hiring virtual hitmen to stop gaming addiction common?
No, this is extremely rare. Professor Mark Griffiths, with 25 years of experience studying gaming addiction, told the BBC he had never heard of family members going to such drastic measures before this case.

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