đ This fact may be outdated
The 'one in eight' (12.5%) statistic is severely outdated, likely from around 2013 or earlier. As of 2024-2025, approximately 27% of married couples met specifically on dating apps/sites, and up to 60% met online through all channels including social media. Online dating became the most common way for American couples to meet around 2013, and the percentage has continued to climb significantly.
One of every 8 married couples in the US last year met online.
How Many Couples Actually Meet Online These Days?
You might have heard that "one in eight married couples met online." If that sounds low to you, trust your instinctsâthat stat is ancient history in internet years. Today, roughly 27% of married couples met on dating apps or dating sites, and if you count all online interactions (social media, forums, gaming), that number jumps to around 60%.
The dating landscape shifted dramatically around 2013, when meeting online overtook meeting through friends for the first time. Before that, the traditional ways dominated: introductions through mutual friends, meeting at work, bumping into someone at a bar, or that classic "we met in college" story.
The Great Digital Shift
What happened? Smartphones went mainstream, dating apps got good, and the stigma evaporated. The 2010s saw the rise of swipe culture with Tinder (2012), followed by a proliferation of platforms catering to every preference and personality type.
Stanford researchers tracking American couples since 2009 documented this transformation in their "How Couples Meet and Stay Together" study. Their data shows a clear trajectory: online meeting went from a minority approach to the dominant method in less than a decade. By 2021, more than half of heterosexual couples were meeting online.
Not Just Apps
Here's where it gets interesting: the 27% figure counts only dating apps and sitesâthe intentional "I'm here to find someone" platforms. But people fall in love in all kinds of digital spaces:
- Social media platforms like Instagram and Facebook
- Gaming communities and multiplayer worlds
- Reddit threads and Discord servers
- Professional networking sites like LinkedIn
- Niche forums and interest-based communities
When researchers count all these channels, the "met online" rate climbs to 60%. Your friend who married someone they met through a Twitter argument about pizza toppings? That counts.
Does It Actually Work?
The University of Chicago studied 19,131 people who married between 2005 and 2012, asking whether online-formed relationships held up as well as traditional ones. The results surprised skeptics: couples who met online reported higher marital satisfaction and lower divorce rates.
Why? Researchers speculate it's the combination of larger dating pools, better filtering for compatibility, and the reduced role of physical proximity in initial attraction. When you can't rely on "they're cute and they're here," you tend to have longer conversations before meeting.
The old 12.5% statistic represents a world where online dating was still somewhat taboo, smartphones were clunky, and your parents asked you to lie about how you met. Today's world? Meeting online is so normal that the question isn't whether you've tried it, but which apps you prefer.